Babies are something I don't have much experience of, especially at the very early stages, but a friend of mine has been asked to be a godparent to a child, and apparently there are books that teach how to help be a part of a young child's life, or so I'm told.
Parents naturally get a lot of help, not just from their own parents, but from doctors and nurses, child care centres etc, but friends who take on a godparent role get no help, I guess society doesn't see the need for it or assumes that if they need to help raise kids that they'll get the help they need at that point.
We were talking about this the other night over dinner, a group of us, and the subject how to look after a
new born came up, what to feed them, how to change nappies, their learning.
I think we all agreed we didn't understand how our own parents coped. And
Wikipedia doesn't help very much, just look at how sparse their information is.
My friends feel it's a responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly, whether as parent or godparent, actually Janet said she thought it's a great idea for a godparent to learn something about new born babies, after all the parents wouldn't choose someone they thought couldn't be trusted.
The first 9 months of a baby's life are critically important to their health and development, and at that age they change so much, learning how to recognize good and bad sounds, touch, letting their little minds grapple with the reality of the world around them, it's not a task to be undertaken lightly.